About Me

As a young woman growing up, I struggled with deep insecurity. Born with a cleft lip and palate, I endured years of bullying that left me feeling unworthy and out of place. I chased society’s beauty standards through surgeries and "faking it till I made it," but nothing fundamentally changed how I felt inside.

At 18, I moved to Berlin, searching for a fresh start. I began exploring my sexuality, but shame and self-doubt kept following me. Outwardly seeming confident, I still wondered, “Will I ever feel real pleasure and confidence, or is faking and hoping it all there is?”

I help women to connect to their
sexual power & confidence.

Hello, I'm Jill

“Will I ever feel real pleasure and confidence, or is faking and hoping for the best all there is?”

Like many women, I believed the lie that my pleasure didn’t matter. I faked orgasms, ignored my boundaries, and felt disconnected from my body.
I waited for someone to "fix" me -imagining the perfect lover or a mind reader who would magically understand and heal me. A turning point came one night when my boundaries were heavily crossed, and I froze. That moment shook me awake. I vowed that I'd find a way to never lose my voice again.

From there, I began a journey of self-discovery - learning to communicate, own my pleasure & desires without shame, and heal my relationship with my body.
I thought empowerment meant being adventurous or having many lovers, but I realized what I truly craved was a safe, fulfilling & deep connection to myself and my partners. The turning point came when I started to discover tantra & began my training as a sex coach.

"I vowed that I'd find a way to never lose my voice again."

Today, I feel safe, celebrated, and empowered in my body and sexuality. Fear and insecurity still visit, but I’ve learned to meet them with compassion & acceptance. My journey has taught me this: Women deserve to feel free and shameless in their sexuality - our desires are valid, our pleasure matters, and we belong & are perfect exactly as we are.

I’m here to help you rewrite your story and reclaim your unique sexual expression. You’re not alone nor broken, and you don’t have to struggle like I did.

Together, we can help you feel empowered, radiant, and deeply connected to your sensual self.
This is your time.

Let's Begin!

I’m here to help you rewrite your story and reclaim your unique sexual expression.

Personal Facts About Me

I live in a beautiful tiny house in nature, close to the beach in the South of Portugal.

I am in a wonderful long-term non-monogamous relationship.

I proudly identify as a bisexual woman.

I have been practising kink for the last 9 years.

I’m a blend of contrasts - one day in a girly white dress, the next in black with my biker boots.

One of my favourite things in this world is being nude at the beach and swimming in the ocean.

I love savouring a good cup of ceremonial cacao. I have a secret delicious recipe you can ask me!

Qualifications

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I’m trained in Non-Violent Communication, which enhances my ability to foster empathy, clarity, and authentic connection. This practice supports my work in helping women navigate their needs and boundaries with compassion and confidence.

I completed a 2-year intensive VITA™ Coaching Training with Layla Martin, blending modern neurobiology, holistic healing, and coaching with ancient Tantra, Taoism, and Sacred Sexuality. I specialized in Female Sexuality and Empowerment.

Certified Sex, Love & Relationship Coach

NVC Course Level 1 & 2

1-Year Tantra Teacher Training with InnerCamp

International School of Temple of Arts Training

I studied traditional Tantra with incredible teachers, gaining a strong foundation to integrate its principles into my life and work. This experience deepened my understanding and commitment to honoring the tradition with integrity and ethics.

I completed ISTA Level 1 training, focusing on self-love, boundaries, shadow work, and transformational practices. This immersive experience provided shamanic tools, healing rituals, and sexual empowerment techniques to reclaim personal power.

+ Ongoing workshops and retreats as part of my personal growth journey.

I am a non-monogamous, queer & kink-friendly coach

Book Your Free Pleasure Block Diagnosis

In this free, 40-minute call, we’ll explore what’s blocking your connection to pleasure and sensuality.

You’ll leave with one actionable step to start embracing your unique sexual confidence. I’m excited to support you in unlocking your full potential!

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